Setting goals has changed my life. Sound a bit dramatic? Probably. But, check out my post on How Goal-Setting Changed Everything to see what I mean.
For the past five years I have not created a single New Year’s resolution. Instead I have set goals for myself. What is the difference? Goals come with action plans–with baby steps to help you reach them. They aren’t just vague “I think I’d like to do this someday…” resolutions. Instead they are written down, planned out, and come with road maps.
I have learned just about everything that I know about goal-setting from Crystal Paine and her blog Money Saving Mom. I also have taken her courses, including Make Over Your Year, in which she breaks down and explains how to create and follow through on goals that will change your life. If you are brand new to goal-setting, or if you’ve tried and failed miserably in the past, I highly recommend the course.
This year my goals focus on the four priorities in my life:
- Personal Growth
I have created three goals within each area that I will strive to reach in 2017. (I have actually created more goals specifically for my blog. If you want to learn more about those and find out how I run my business, be sure to sign up for my blogging tips weekly newsletter.)
My Goals for 2017: April Update
1. Pray through the Psalter 6 times.
The Psalms are the prayer book of the Church. By praying with the words of the Psalms, Orthodox Christians have immersed themselves in the Scriptures and tied themselves firmly to Tradition. This year I would like to pray through the Psalter at least 6 times. This averages out to 2-3 psalms each day, which I think is very doable. I may increase that number during the fasting periods such as Great Lent. If you are looking for a small, beautiful Psalter, the A Psalter for Prayer: Pocket Edition is organized by the traditional kathismatas of the Orthodox Church. You can also, of course, always use your Bible. (I find the Orthodox Study Bible to be very helpful with all of its notes and commentary.)
In order to pray through the Psalter 6 times, I will need to pray half of it (75 psalms) each month.
March Update: This month I got back on track. I began bringing my pocket Psalter to school with me and praying during my planning period. For some reason, this really helped me have a dedicated time for prayer. Mornings have just gotten a bit more hectic recently, so my room at school is a great place to pray!
2. Read one spiritual book each month.
My spiritual father suggested this last year, and I am so glad that he did. I read almost constantly, so having a spiritual emphasis to that reading is important. Here are a few of the books that I would love to read or reread this year:
March Update: This month I read Vanessa the Wonderworker by Grace Brooks. This is the second in the series begun by Queen Abigail the Wise–written for tween girls, but enjoyable for readers of all ages. I highly recommend it!
Done for this month!
3. Pray an Akathist Hymn each week.
In the Orthodox Church, we also pray prayers that are called Akathist hymns. Akathist hymns are dedicated to a particular saints, events, or a person of the Trinity and are designed to guide a Christian’s prayers and meditation upon that person or event. The word Akathist itself means “not sitting,” as the general posture for prayer in the Orthodox Church is standing. The most famous Akathist hymn (referred to generally just as The Akathist) is dedicated to the Theotokos (Mary) and is a part of the Lenten services.
I would like to add Akathist Hymns to my weekly prayer routine. There are several evenings a week where my husband is out working and my children are in bed. What a perfect opportunity to spend some quiet time in prayer! I hope to pray the Akathist to the Mother of God Nurturer of Children, the Akathist of Thanksgiving, and others.
March Update: Due to some intense illnesses in our house (the real flu paid us a visit!), my prayer routine was a little off for part of this month. So, I did not make the goal of praying an Akathist each week.
4. Go on one family outing each month.
This is one of my goals each year, and I absolutely love it! I find that life can get busy much of the time, so making sure that we set aside time as a family to have fun together can often get overlooked. Each month we look for free or inexpensive things to do together. Past outings have included apple picking, visiting a museum, going to a lake, hiking in a national park, and more.
March Update: We were so incredibly blessed to attend a Vespers service at a church in Richmond with a visiting myrrh-streaming icon. The entire experience was so moving for our entire family.
Done for this month!
5. Have one date night (in or out of the house) each month.
This is another favorite goal. Because of our budget restriction, my husband and I don’t have too many “out of the house” date nights. We have, however, perfected the in-house Date Night Challenge. Past date nights have included: watching movies off of the AFI Top 100 List, playing board games, listening to audiobooks, or cooking together.
March Update: My husband and I had a game night this month. We played Settlers of Catan and Scrabble. Simple but fun!
Done for this month!
6. Read or listen to 12 chapter books together with all of the children.
My youngest son is now 3–an age which I believe is old enough to begin to enjoy chapter books. So, this year I will read chapter books together with all of the children. I’m excited to choose books that all 3 kiddos will enjoy! (If you are looking for some good chapter books for little ones, check out my Favorite Chapter Books for Young Readers.)
February Update: This month we listened to Little House on the Prairie. We haven’t quite finished yet, but the kids are enjoying it!
Done for this month!
7. Attend one writing/blogging conference.
As I am working more and more on my writing and blogging, I am realizing just how important conferences are. They give opportunities to learn from experts and to network with others in the same field. I am really excited about this goal!
February Update: I registered for Ancient Faith’s Writing and Podcasting Conference. Can’t wait!
As “done” as I can be until June!
8. Create two more products to help Orthodox families live out the Faith.
This past year I wrote the e-book Seasons of the Faith: Helping Your Family Celebrate the Feasts and Fasts of the Church Year. I was just blown away by the response! People have used the book in their own families and for Sunday Schools around the country. Because of this, I would like to create two more products that will help Orthodox families live out the Faith. Be sure to look for something coming up soon for Great Lent!
March Update: While it wasn’t a specifically Orthodox book, I did publish the 10 Days to a Tidy Home e-book in January. If you are needing a bit of inspiration and a slight kick in the pants to help you declutter your house–this is it! The book is only $4! After I published 10 Days to a Tidy Home, I decided that I needed to take a bit of a break from pushing myself so hard in the blog realm. I have decided that I will wait a bit before I publish another product, and instead spend some more time with my family.
9. Take the EBA 3.0 course and implement all parts
A year and a half ago I purchased and began the Elite Blog Academy (affectionately known as EBA) taught by Ruth Soukup. I have seen definite results in my growth as a writer and blogger. In February of this year, Ruth is launching EBA 3.0--a completely reworked version of the course. I have lifetime access to the course, so I am really excited to re-take the course with its updated parts. (If you are a blogger, be sure to get on the waiting list for EBA. It will seriously change your life!)
March Update: The 3.0 version just became available, so I will start working on it soon.
10. Run/Hike 365 miles this year.
Last year I set some pretty big goals for myself as a runner. However, I didn’t reach any of them–partly because they required running in races which have fees. This year I have decided to set a goal in miles instead of races. I thought that this goal of roughly 7 miles per week was very doable.
March Update: March was kind of a running flop. Because of a change in my husband’s schedule, I don’t have a good time to go running during the day. And, since it gets dark so early (and I don’t feel comfortable running in the dark on our busy roads), I’m kind of stuck indoors.
The kids and I have also gone on a few short hikes this month, bringing my grand total of ran/hiked miles to: 25.
11. Read 100 Books.
In 2015, I set the audacious goal of reading 100 books. I was surprised that I managed to do so by November! Last year I did not set that goal for myself and read 70 books. While 70 is still a respectable number, I realized that I need to set big goals in order to have big results. So, this year is another 100 book year. Here’s to reading!
March Update: March has been a good month for reading. I have read 25 books so far this year. Check out my favorites so far.
12. Set aside one day each week as a Sabbath in order to rest and maintain my health.
Finally, I have to realize that I am not a super hero. I do not have limitless supplies of energy that will help me reach these goals. So, my final goal is to rest. Each week I will set aside one date in which I will not work on blogging or writing or grading papers. Instead I will spend time with the family, pray, read, and go to bed early. After all, rest and health is just as important as doing and going.
March Update: I have actually decided to spend a couple of nights each week in “Sabbath mode.” It has been lovely! This is one reason I have been able to get so much reading in. And, I have had time to play games with my kids, listen to audiobooks with them, hang out with my husband, and exercise. Perfect!
Do you have any goals for 2017? What are they? Let’s share so we can encourage each other this year!
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